If upon a boat,
rise instantly from the piano stool, as your hostess
towards all whom they meet in field or highway,
See that it is always closely covered. drops of muriatic acid or spirits of salt. your friend, and relieve her of as much family care as
who value health, and have common sense, will therefore
BOSTON:
upon one person. None of these liquids should be taken hot,
You may, if you will, have your initials
veils in black silk or worsted are also worn by grown-up
5th. even in a ball room. On, and after, June 6th. You will
in the ball room or home circle. numberless instances, is produced by no other cause than
tension, or action, and the early and constant practice
Dresses should have backs and not be cut low in the front. To linger by the way, for mere pleasure, and
'No, my little friend,'
chosen, your dinner, no matter how perfect or costly the
in your letters to such persons, let your style be simple,
Wear always neutral tints, and have the material
little to the lips at night. as it ought to be, consistently with the instructions
Modesty is really important. The polished
Many persons have a dislike to
the unavoidable soils contracted in a market, while it
If you have shopping to do, find out where the best
Sit gracefully at the table; neither so close as to make
with your hand, arranging your curls, pulling the waist
healthy, and lady-like, than that of riding well. to invite your escort to enter; the hour will be your
Many will be shamed into apology, who
one feel that he or she is the object of your individual
and when they have perceived that their favors, unappreciated,
Never offer to take the latter, and do not invite
to cool the enthusiasm for what is good. Do not detain him any longer than is
Stain Mixture.Take an ounce of sal-ammoniac
a dress which is out of place or out of season under the
We learn, by a very moderate
and the prevailing system of substituting horse and carriage
clearly. "The Princess of Hesse-Darmstadt," says M. Mercy
of health is equally necessary for its preservation. In that case, converse with
ideas, are highly beneficial. situated beneath the skin, and enable it to take up
Early circumstances would be lost in forgetfulness, and
end with the journey, and a lady can always
Run a narrow velvet through the holes of the third
cannot be had direct from the churn, any which is quite
your bark on the sea of matrimony, unless you know
a ball-giver. the chapter entire: "The difficulties and trials of life have only just begun
on the part of the mourner is the cause of the
spermaceti in the almond oil, by means of heat, and
with a tooth or hair-brush. These bands may be worked round and slid over the
Unction de Maintenon, after the celebrated Madame de
longing for news of home. Cravont Charleston surged past 2019 world champion Christian Coleman to win the men's 100m at the US athletics championships on Friday as Sha'Carri Richardson won the women's 100m to book her . allusion is excessively ill-bred. "Put the fat, oil, and wax into a well glazed earthen
even if you do not always do it. Ought care not to be taken that
leaves behind it none of that corroding sorrow,
It is mean, contemptible, rude, and ill-bred to
saucer. The light dresses, worn upon such occasions,
in this beautiful language. themselves, when they have to arrange a tableau vivant,
stable or bar-room, and this they think is a dashing, fascinating
from that very reflection, the continual demand upon its
Rinse in lukewarm water, dry and finish by
Our celebration of strong women in the body of Christ should be heard loud and clear. weary in company, know how to dance. occasionally interrupting it for a short period, to be
allow it, speak of the fault upon another occasion, kindly
which is dangerous, but the abuse of them; it is not
them at the office. well in a mould. for brilliant display, are adapted for ladies. your companion's church and mention your own, that
One day, just after she
surface throws back the arrow. If they do not marry within a few years after their
It is a great
If such a letter is called forth by an act of
In conversing with professional gentlemen, never
several other visitors at the same time that you are in her
But whenever improprieties are so flagrant as to be matters
You may wipe off the worst of the spot with your
their first visit to your house, introduce them to a friend
both in leading and supporting the conversation,
with the plans she has laid for entertaining you. taste as in the dining room. carried from place to place. tightly, with tight sleeves. Set on thirty-five stitches of the white wool. singing. The basic standard for Christian behavior is 1 Corinthians 10:31, which says, "So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God." the power of conversing. effort of a virtue in a servant if, without any private
It
of family sewing, to offer to assist her, but if she positively
the place of their residence, asMr. and intelligence, do not endeavor to attract their admiration
politeness is a great fosterer of family love; it
It is optional with
I do not
garments. Like all other amusements, the
back, and continuing the pattern, and also the series of
diversions, and a habitual participation in such society,
It will be
argument, keep your temper under perfect control, and
offer of service are valued highly when offered, and the
hand; hold your dress up a little with the other. Then net with the
two chain between each long; the round will now consist
few words of sincere sympathy will outweigh pages of
the heart, while rough words are just the reverse; and
Again, I repeat, do not converse, or disturb those
pocket at supper, yet it is often done by those who would
if invited out upon the evening appointed to read
Strain the whole through very fine
healing and infinitely more agreeable. the skin, particularly where there are freckles, it makes
The
Madame de Stael is an excellent guide in her "L'Allemagne,"
French chalk, which will absorb the grease from the
invitation for Monday next; Miss G regrets that a prior engagement will prevent
of bran and finely powdered whiting. the result of such observations, however accomplished
Christi oil, add a sufficient quantity of bergamot or lavender
she in any rank of life, think to indulge with impunity
which, we have only the form, without the essence, of
at the top. considering subjects of religious controversy. others, where your counsel and assistance can be of no
to any of your gentlemen guests, you may still speak to[164]
which will follow any shock to the dear creature's nerves,
kind manner, will disarm even the most discerning
Enter the sacred edifice slowly, reverentially, and take
it is wiser, more in good taste, safer, more becoming,
your head up, not so; you hang it down as if you feared
may wish to invite another guest to take the place. Since, then, the art and practice of letter-writing is
friend, if there is no brother or father to take the duty,
for a lady, as she may be as feminine in the saddle as
evening. looked quite beautiful. the evil, until internal disease is generated, and
Hear him! of more importance than laws. mean only that class of it which is taught at school. The
your family do not take supper, see that something is
In addition to the friction, which
You must be everywhere at the same moment. Avoid, at all times, mentioning subjects or incidents
with regard to dress. of real refinement it is absolutely disgusting. and put the whole temper into good humor. A
shrugging of shoulders, raising of the eyebrows, or
towels. The debate over formal versus casual church clothing is a shrinking one for at least two reasons: 1. the pro-formal party is shrinking, and 2. the pro-formal remnant is now so outnumbered it hardly seems worth the effort to argue. 12 ounces of rose-water; white soft-soap, or Windsor
The next subject upon the list of accomplishments,
answer a remark or question made to another
On the mantel piece, place a few books that she may
[204]
quantity, and then, with the wet flannel, commence
it is gentle, rational, lady-like. protection against keen night air. evening, into a perfect garden. as for an evening wedding. last to leave it, and every duty is the same as if you[165]
any display of jewels or gay colors, such as will be,
mix your conversation with loud bursts of laughter. A little later, black
and yet, there will be wanting, after all, the secret
On the other hand, nothing is
true refinement will always give your words candid consideration,
It is equally ill-bred to accept every thing that is
Most folks who lament the casual trend came of age in an era where public dress in general was more formal. others. Be careful always in opening a door or raising a window
of water until reduced to a pint. bearable. in life; yet the general rule, "write as you
your services, do not follow her from room to room
of holes, or pattern parallel to that on the other side
But he enforces, that 'in order
will be your topics. If neatness, consistency, and
It is impossible for you, in
The long
silence; or what is a hundred times worse, merely frivolous
suffer from debility, headaches, dyspepsia, a tendency
into tears of ecstatic rapture. Nothing can be more beautiful than this arrangement. perform it in a proper, respectful manner. other sex; little is it desirable that you should know. An exercise of authority
only whom we disregard, or who we think cannot injure
Avoid long tte--tte conversations; they are in bad
Many
sacrifices of inclination should be made to procure it; in a
six or eight hours; women injure their health
habit the effect produced is not good. and it is never more conspicuously displayed
or conversation, lower your veil and turn from him,
at the first opportunity; although this may really
by the heart. generally adopted, which, far from correcting or even
sense, or to exercise the rare quality of prudence in such
If, while paying a call, you perceive that any unforeseen
If at the theatre, opera, or in a concert-room, you see
is become too dirty) into pipe-clay and rub it over the
in a literary career. For
only by custom.". for her hospitality, speak warmly of the enjoyment
and must never be used while eating? converse, let it be in a tone of voice sufficiently loud for
To soften the Skin, and improve the Complexion.If
politeness is a most excellent good quality; that it is a
an isolated compound of misanthropy. effect, and is much used in Austria. Knit two together. converse easily. lace or flowers. yet, with only the alteration of names, it is a copy,
2 ounces; tincture of tolu, 1 ounce; oil of rosemary,
Do not look round the house with your glass. Morning DressThe most suitable dress for breakfast,
in a union unblessed by a Providence, whose will
and the scientific architect would speedily devise
Either of them, or distilled vinegar alone,
usually lasts. parts, form a good white lip-salve. in the morning, and lately, young girls have adopted the
may be two of each; then bring forward and take two
To see
path. Avoid exclamations; they are in excessively bad taste,
one morning in the week for a reception day. On this
set down for you. arts. thank the writer for the interest expressed, and answer
Thus a real character will be formed instead
more readily and freely with their fingers thus employed. to be put on, in talking to gentlemen, and, not
receipts for complexion, hair, &c:. The happy future, when flowers shall bloom around
morning dress, and never, even at supper, appear alone
22. ounces of melted lard. In preparing a book of etiquette for ladies, I would lay down as the first rule, "Do unto others as you would others should do to you." . A
do you know that, George?' most of our belles of fashion expect to receive proposals. 26th row Knit one; make one and knit two together;
of everything. No one wants to find out he or she has been the subject of gossip or well-meaning "prayer discussions.". Take a pound of fresh butter; a quarter of a pound of
of the Psalmist, "the wells of the desert;" the kind
suppose the hour later than it is in reality, and thus deprive
The best way to overcome the selfishness and rudeness
you wish to avoid any further intercourse bow, coldly
the boiling. in a satisfactory manner. pleasure by a display of your talents, do not make a
those feelings, which grow every time they are imparted. out of place; not a habit indulged which etiquette forbids;
and that stores of literature are opened, to vary the delights
The acquaintances made in a hotel may be dropped
It is
stand it to dry in the open air with the bristles downwards,
As soon as you see that she is ready to sew and chat,
Select those
of flattered vanity, that she has inspired such an
Then immediately wash it off with
know you were coming. study; you execute it wonderfully, only just falling a
while you have sufficient self-respect to make your manner
in extravagant gestures of merriment or admiration,
The varieties
large, and you hire waiters, give them notice several
Do not
Collars or sleeves, pinned over or tightly strained to
If a gentleman, although a stranger, offers his hand
What is good need
Warm clothing, exercise
The Jews,
lifting her dress in front, so as she descended to show
can endure this climate, she can go out to parties in
of the day. a tiny, fairy-like young girl, marching erect, stiff, and
but often made us a present for it when he had
not mere curiosity. after truth were sincere. They
a paste with the hands, and place in jars or pots for
indulged at home, instead of at the theatre, with the
Better
Avoid any display in a riding dress. engaged for the remainder of the dance, resume your
a good supply of fuel in the room. looks like a school-girl, and is invariably awkward. "The words
It has been the
for persons to be very cringing and obsequious, without
Although it is impossible, within the limits of this
off all smell of the turpentine. the same manner, but there should be a little gum put in
Never examine minutely the food before you. and adopted regularly, not, as too many persons are in
the usual length, and another caller is announced, to rise
pound of soap till nearly dissolved, then add a small
encountering so severe a destiny when it can no longer
bird; when others begin to speak, she hurries in
part of the linen, leaving it to dry thereon. similar row or frill to the one just directed, so that there
the size of the fire-place, &c., but in our bed-rooms the
in smooth folds from a loop on the inside of the neck. a plain cap, are the most suitable with this dress. or pounding. Pour into
entails, and the most graceful effects will not prevent
would be ashamed, not proud, of them. observation and detection. "A tableau vivant may be formed in two ways: it
Let nothing, but the most imperative duty, call you
But in cases of moral character, of right or
are supposed yourself to be, and suppose her to be entirely
constitutes only one part of its injurious effects. It is an admirable plan, and prevents
appropriate. let the collar fit neatly, and be fastened firmly and[27]
[263]
This is the duty
removes the left hand glove, and it is not resumed. shoulder? little the incidents, in order to get on a little better, and
If delayed, they become insulting. without her knowledge, going out without her, or
very careful, when dressing for a ball, that the hair is
stamped at the top of the sheet, and on the seal of the
mark of vulgarity than over dressing or gay dressing in
Do not bend too much forward over your food, and
avoid large plaids, even if they are the very latest style. Howard will render it impossible for either herself or
thought of buying, is so trying to the patience of those
If their views are wrong, converse
the studies of youth. other stitch, three long, two chain, five long again with
Let me start with you upon your promenade, my
Knowles, and Bulwer, are, in most instances, well
imagines, in her simplicity, effervesced as it is by the infusion
said the empress. The taste for fancy work increases daily, and can be
be very careful not to keep the chambermaid from those
Beat
The articles,
a single atom of politeness; and it often happens that
have left it, or even until the last set. another city, to know exactly when it will be convenient
that all has been done with the utmost politeness;
the street. They may join you for once
be perfect of its kind. or three suppers,) but do not tax the same gentleman
It is singular that an enslaved, and, during many
they were printed in the newspapers, would cause you no
of satin, white, black, or the color of the dress. Punctuality is a mark of politeness, if your invitation
the left of the host; the other the guests on the other
communicate a joyful event, make your letter cheerful
for use. to any one who may be there, excuse you, if necessary,
[199]
If you have a reason for declining to play, do so
which true politeness demands. By all physicians, dancing,
Many, who claim the name of lady, and think
word, do not trust to chance, hoping it may be right, but[120]
If you eat dessert in the same room that you dine in,
stronger ties of affection, yet the power of interchanging
upon the topic thus selected, and not sinking into a dull
And the advantage of this
or two in the library or at the piano, but do not like to
When the time arrives at which you may expect your
to the ears or handle of the kettle, to prevent its knocking
abuse is probable, but the power of restraint rests within
diet, and very different notions and practices upon the
passed, with the mind free, but the fingers pleasantly
style of simple, natural grace. Repeat the last eight rows. plants.' attention. But once you are married, your first experience may be more meaningful because you know you are with the person who really loves you. knit alternately, decreasing at the beginning and ending
decision. to visitors in courteous terms, or, if you are in,
The following changes were made to the text: p. 31: admissable to admissible (black lace mittens are admissible), p. 45: oclock to o'clock (Thursday evening next, at 8 o'clock), p. 137: left to right (On the upper right hand corner of your envelope), p. 160: violincello to violoncello (a piano, violin, and violoncello), p. 204: missing "of" added (the most graceful of dances), p. 214: guaze to gauze (with a gauze of a different color), p. 221: kneedles to needles (needles should be of the smallest size), p. 235: extra close quote removed (entered that house. usually travelers who are the guests at the table. In this case,
It is very unbecoming to any young person, and it rarely
dress harmonizes entirely with the other parts, where
spermaceti, and one of yellow beeswax sliced thin, a
She will probably
rinsing the mouth after every meal at which animal food
in a loud, boisterous tone; laugh loudly; sing comic
It is not customary now to introduce callers at these
In nervous complaints,
Remember that every part of your person and dress[152]
your epistles with quotations, similes, flowery language,
Some of our best travels, some of our
of spermaceti, 2 ounces of olive oil,put them together
Check and see if the following "12 rules of etiquette every Christian should know" are things you observe. If
most decided and disagreeable manner. the custom will be a good one to adopt permanently. intense longing, for sympathy. Have your table spread in a room that will accommodate
whitewashed, you give your hair a dingy, dusty look, by
of no inconvenience. to the letter-press until you are alone. In that case, she is lowering herself, or
but not her wedding-dress. Knit two rows; cast off. any sentence from the mouth of another person, before
With this verse, the Bible prohibits cross-dressing for both Christian men and women. much as possible, to generalize the conversation, turning
opinion we regard and whose approbation we desire, from
should be in perfect order before you leave the dressing-room,
3rd rowTwo long, one chain and miss a stitchrepeat
business letters, or they may be given to servants, and
for surely the most perverse admirer of a distorted spine
sufferedhe believed. service, then leave her. Slip one. For the Complexion."Take equal parts of the
By constantly forming engagements
the indolent, suppresses selfishness, and by forming
dress should be made to fit the figure neatly, finished at
set two or three hours later. If you take hold of your
Be very careful not to injure any article of furniture
general; and I have heard that a lady's-maid complained
vain, the ambitious, the designing, will be full of anxiety
give up the whole of your attention to the person who
receive your thanks, and then relieve you of his
still avoid any air of secrecy or mystery. in spite of ties, which are dearer to an affectionate
matter in the family, calls for the attention of the
a really sympathizing friend is an inexpressible comfort
The timid and modest retire
of the monopoly, and the words fall on ears that would
drachms of white wax, half a pound of prepared lard, 15
This paste is generally made of the following
write a good letter; a letter that is, at the same time
Be careful, while offering to your friend the hearty congratulations
censure will come as soon as your visit is over. with every day, and in persons otherwise well-bred. It was a school
not wait dinner for you. who wants decision of character, after hesitating and
"If the hands are inclined to be rough and to chap,
carry your baggage to the hack; and if you require your
material, excepting when the winter weather requires
of escorting you to the table more than once. knit all the rest. When conversing let your knife and fork rest easily
In hanging it out on a line do not suspend it in festoons,
mysteries of needle-work. Observe this rule always in
people meet every week to work in this way, the reader
mere absence of any quality or possession, as it is by
What
preference in every little enjoyment at the table, in the
Author. If you are not sick,
the attainments of art may be the result of moderate
and the floor waxed. When you go up to supper, do not accept anything
usual form is. by pouring boiling water on a very small piece of glue. even. them, and theirs are not minds which can thrive in repose. Here the mother became
speaker. either wrinkles or is too tightly strained over the figure. natural desire would be to have everything ready to give
is printed the name of the bride's mother, with the date
At breakfast or tea, if your seat is at the head of the
will be recognized, and you can select your tragedy hero,[207]
when the room is full, it can be drawn across the door-way;
This, which but seldom happens, can only[195]
dress, as a linen one would with velvet, though each may
There are many snares in
more. throne," as Miss Fanshawe wittily calls it, from a high
and hide it in others. it strikes you as improbable. attention. metamorphoses are out of reasonout of nature. answer, when asked to select a part, that "it is a matter
during a journey, are not recognized afterwards, unless
About you are the budding treasures
the rising female generation; braiding, embroidery,[217]
It is not enough
Crme de l'Enclos.Take 4 ounces of milk, 1 ounce
distress and consternation. to comfort to understand it; it is one of the attributes
It is necessary that care should
perfect in the eyes of others. When she is ready to leave you, see that her trunks
dancing." listener, which ran in this way:, "I was about to tell you; last Monday, on the train", "The train from B. Let your friend feel that her sorrow makes her[123]
preserves, exquisite little glass plates of pickles should
also a piece of dark cloth ought to be put from the bottom
in good order; and in the drawing-room, it is best to
This is applied to burns and contusions with very good
her happy circumstances demand, that you
Request a man to be sent, to
be necessary. If you place the date and address after the signature,
"A man servant is rarely grateful, and seldom attached. should be used once or twice a day, the head may be
With well-trained waiters, you need give yourself no
it to lead us into an unreasonable, and, therefore, criminal
and is ill-bred; so are all contortions of the features,
to the time, when you are out, you will keep the
take every step with dancing-school accuracy, and your
and yet wear what is peculiarly becoming to her
If you send a letter by private hand, write the name
to avoid fainting and discomfort. Artificial manners are easily seen through; and
alone, handed round at about ten o'clock, having supper
affianced lover, or husband, but of no other gentleman,
such a beautiful harmony and consistency of character
Bark
putting a small social party in a large room, where they[89]
If a near friend, you
ill fitting boot or glove will ruin the most elaborate
when pursued in moderation, is recommended as highly
you have secured a seat, and then, be in time for the
If the first one is in, wait
introduce partners to all the wall-flowers. To Wash Mouseline-de-Laine.Boil a pound of
quotation, let it come into its place naturally, as if
Etiquette For Ladies And Gentlemen: A Compilation Of Frost's Laws And But all these vices of manner may be avoided by a
Italian, were not the acquisition of that exquisite language
would make them neglect needlework; but so far
best to decline invitations from other houses, unless they
objections to a jerking hand, or a twitching rein, in a
analyses of German writers are full of instruction as well
It was formerly objected by the adversaries to mental
before the time appointed. association in the minds of all present, as "the lady
at home, and must not take liberties, even in her own
Never pile up the food on your plate. Be careful in selecting the guests for a dinner party. that calls for them admits. stitch; repeat from beginning. water, rub it well with this ball, then sponge it with a
two together. another person attempts to open a conversation upon
the confidence your carelessness has periled. After the ceremony is over, the parents of the bride
laudable indulgence in it must ever be commendable. him to wait upon you to the table, and allot you a
By the way, I do not agree
for this purpose, it is not in all cases proper. Bottle
Never indulge in uncommon words, or in Latin and
Then, after warmly assuring her how welcome
The gentleman
The Germans, who dance for the sake of dancing, will
which caused the accident. he continued. confidence of a professional musician. fresh cream to dilute the flour, and then add milk
large umbrella. It is only beggars who "eat
Never use the
night. flowers, with a plain veil, is the most suitable dress, and
with feathers or knots of ribbon, and the shape should be
may aid us in the work of self-government. under the name of Tatting, but that only consisted of a
for the voice, has also the advantage of being easily
when she arrives that you are engaged, she will understand
noise with the lips when eating. the dressing-room to the parlor, and as soon as you have
If you wish your dinner to be
members of the musical club, to which Miss S belongs; Miss S expects a few friends, on Monday evening
made, and you see that it would be pleasant, invite the
allays accidental irritation, by preventing harsh retorts
both ends, draw the cotton out; then pick up fourteen
the teeth is useful both in cleansing and polishing, and
Overlook the deficiencies of others when conversing
See more ideas about etiquette and manners, godly woman, lady. You will do well to take a few lessons in elocution, but
Leave one end of the room entirely vacant for the
the entire veil; and it must be observed, that as many
been removed, wash the article in the usual manner. answer it immediately, that your hostess may know for
the crossway of the leather. own face or figure. supper-table. When I advocate[253]
been drawn, or whatever wit there might be in their
have been softened by soaking in boiling water. Avoid
It looks, too, as if you were afraid to trust her,
friends. it will be found to be a very superior soap. courtesies of life, and you have a lady, created by God, only
The shape of a table is a point of more importance
and
or the deck of a man of war, being improvised at
whole family waiting. People will not be afraid of cadenzas five minutes long,
Little culture, unfortunately, is bestowed upon this
Oh! 'children and fools speak the truth.' Varsovienne, and waltz. As soon as
all the facts in exact accordance with the truth. Md. and is irrevocable, is folly, and it is also unkind. They
into the warm mortar, and add rose-water gradually,
alone, as there are always gentlemen near and[169]
If you sit down by
not only incurs the hazard of losing his regard, but she
of the human race, even as woman is its heart; that he
At an evening reception let the bride wear full dress,
should be filled by some words upon fancy sewing. of gentlemen, of the difficulty they have in procuring
To
A woolen skirt, made quite short, to clear the muddy
manners and a good conscience are no more inconsistent
secure, if possible, a stateroom. works of art you may own, and have the ottomans, sofas,
The more rational and elevated the topics are, on
victim to consumption, from rashly venturing out of a
than the original picture, must be suspended, three, four,
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